Friday, February 6, 2009

Simple Pleasures

Another lesson learned from my favorite, tiny teachers.

Pushing the overfull cart out the doors of Wal-Mart with a kid on each side holding on, they start chanting, "GO FAST OUTSIDE! GO FAST OUTSIDE!" This is a grocery store (or any store with shopping carts) ritual; we go fast outside. We've done this a million times, but today it hit me. As I'm running as fast as I dare with my 300lb. cart, the looks of excitement on their faces and their high-pitched screams and giggles taught me my lesson. To get to my excitement equivalency would for sure have to be a roller coaster, a BIG roller coaster. Why can't I just stop, get out of "survival mode" and enjoy life's simple pleasures? It made me stop and think of the little things that bring my girls ecstatic joy. For instance;
* a band-aid, ooh and especially if it's colorful- WOW! That's exciting!
*pushing the button to open the microwave. My excitement equivalency; pushing the button to launch the space shuttle.
*Picking out a worthless toy at the $1 store. My excitement equivalency; picking out my new (not off the clearance rack) shoes.
*a few chocolate chips. My, I'm going to call it E.E. (excitement equivalency) so I don't have to keep typing it, is the whole bag of the expensive chocolate.
*Playing in a big bowl of suds (desperate times call for desperate measures). My E.E.; I don't know, swimming with the dolphins maybe?
* a sleep over. My E.E.; my honeymoon.
* a 25 cent ice cream cone. My E.E; dinner, a movie, and then a BIG ice cream cone.
* glitter. My E.E.; diamonds.
A few more pleasures; riding in Daddy's truck, going out to get the mail (big fights over who's turn it is), A great big box, like the one the swing set came in. It got more use than the actual swing set. Sleeping in Mom and Dad's bed, going to Grandma and Grandpa's house, stickers, play-doh, ringing the doorbell, mopping the floor and washing the dishes (that won't last long). I could go on and on, and I have, but my point is (I think) that this isn't going to last forever. Pretty soon they'll be saying, "I don't care", "why do I have to mop", "It's not my turn to get the mail", "I'm not riding in the cart, that's for babies!" Most of the time I'm in the mood where, I don't want the play-doh out because it's messy, or I'll say that they don't need a band-aid unless they're bleeding. Seriously! What is a few cents on a stupid band-aid that will make their day? Or, I'm famous for saying, "no, let me do it, it's faster." Where's the fire? Why do I need the floor mopped at warp speed, when I KNOW that using the Swiffer Wet Jet would be the talk of the 2nd grade for a week! Sometimes I get frustrated because I feel like I have to do everything for everyone, but how long will it be before they don't need me at all? :(

Lesson learned from my favorite, tiny teachers. Slow down, relax, and enjoy life's simple pleasures. And most importantly, enjoy every bit of every stage my children are in (minus poopy diapers).

I'm so lucky and blessed to have these precious little girls. I learn from them everyday about the person I should be. Please pray for me that I won't fail them, they deserve the best. I hope they NEVER stop enjoying life and it's simple pleasures.

13 comments:

John and Laura said...

Wow! Look how skinny you are! You look great!

THANK YOU for this reminder. Will you post this same reminder every couple of weeks? :)

Shannon said...

I loved reading that! Children make you relize the simple things don't they? I have learned that, but I constantly tell myself to slow down and make sure I smell the roses. Because before you know it, they are all grown up!

Sullivan Family said...

what a beautiful lesson, nat. thanks for sharing!

p.s. they made me type in "couts" for my word verification so i could post my comment

Katrina said...

You always have the best tunes on your blog, Nat. Going to sit here and listen for a bit. I am so right there with you on this. I tend to get stuck in "survival mode" and then I miss out on so much. Thanks for that sweet reminder to take a step back and enjoy my little ones. By the way, I have been having some serious "Enjoying the Journey" withdrawals so yahoo for this post! :)

Jess said...

So true I have been thinking a lot about this lately.

Melissa said...

Oh, Nat! I honestly think that you took the words right out of my mouth! I am with you 100% & then I get so frusterated; & think that it doesn't really matter & let them be kids, who cares about the mess, obviously I care too much about the mess & not enough about my kids fun!

Brandie said...

Natalie, what a great mom you are to have the ability to realize this now, while it is happening. Your girls are blessed with a wonderful mommy. I am so glad to be in touch again and have a window in to your family. Lucky me! Sophie has been faking injuries for the last week trying to get a batman band aid, I think I'll get one out tonight so she can wear it to school tomorrow. :) Thanks for the inspiration.

Ben and Jen Bailey said...

Thanks for the inspiration. That was an awesome post.

Ginger said...

It is a great thing to remember, and after reading your post yesterday I tried to remember it as Bronsen and I were making cookies today and he wanted to do the scooper. (It took about a minute per cookie) But what's the real hurry? It reminds me of what my grandma always told us about being parents. "Only say no when you have to, but when you say no, mean it!"

Tavia said...

I love you, Nat! Love your freakin' honesty. You are amazing and I'm sure the know it...you're a great mom! Yeah, they enjoy the little things in life while the older we get, it takes a lot more to remind us. Children are in our lives for a reason.

Tavia said...

I meant..."they" know it!!

Syndi said...

yeah, my eyes are watery, really... what a great way to look at things. love ya

Brandie said...

I thought of this post again today as I took the car to the gas station to get washed and to use the coin op vacuum. The girls begged to sit in the front seat while I sucked sand and glitter and crumbs off the floor. Usually I make them sit in their carseats but they felt like they were driving!